Timing Is Everything When It Comes To Marriage Counseling.
I won’t give any assurance on working of marriage after counseling. Counseling helps in making partners reveal their grudges, resentment with each other. They talk about a lot of their unmet expectations which has hurt them in their relationship.
Most of the time, a heart to heart communication releases the inbuilt tension. And then they are in better condition to fulfill the expectations of each other. Though it seems difficult in the beginning. The counselor explains the new ways of rekindling the hidden love.
What happens when people fight in the counseling office?
The counselor provides a controlled environment . One of the best strategies is to ask the couple to talk to the counselor instead of each other. Giving each other time to speak about their reasons for unhappiness and how they would like to resolve it makes them feel heard. Counseling actually helps a couple to express their true feelings and emotions.
