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Ways to be Happy and Healthy at Old Age

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Ways to be Happy and Healthy at Old Age

 

Old age is a time when you sit back and enjoy your life. You are much wiser; people’s opinions do not fluster you. You are much more comfortable with yourself. Your kids left home and you have all the reasons to do the things you want to do. Enjoying your life allows you to healthy aging.

 

It is completely understandable why you might feel lonely as you get older. Old friends and work acquaintances have left town. Even worse, many people close to you could have passed away. There are a few ways that Keep Older Adults Happy and healthy

 

  1. Exercise

 

Exercise and physical well-being are a great place to start. Exercising lifts your spirit and energy levels make you feel better. While exercising your body releases endorphins also known as feel-good hormones. If you have not been exercising before, it is not too late to start with light workouts into your routine. Even if you did not exercise before, this reduces your chance of getting disabled by 25 percent.

 

Exercise also helps get relief from chronic pain conditions like arthritis. It helps in maintaining weight. It also prevents from developing diseases such as obesity and diabetes. Improves our metabolism, lowers blood pressure and strengthens our immune system. Before joining any exercise program please consult your doctor.

 

  1. What you eat

 

Although your body is experiencing some changes, mealtimes can still be fun. Try to eat with your loved ones to avoid feeling lonely. Also, make an effort to ensure your food is tasty and well presented. This will trigger your senses and improve your appetite. Drink plenty of water to go on a high-fiber diet. Water is also suitable for healthy skin. Your diet should be as per your healthcare provider’s instructions.

 

  1. Join Support Group 

 

When a change occurs as it usually will, you will need a reliable support system. It could be due to a recent loss or a diagnosis. Work through your emotions by talking about them. Listen to the people who have experienced similar situations. This relaxes your soul and helps you heal.

 

The knowledge of the suffering will make you feel less alone. Consult a health professional if you are feeling depressed. This can be treated with medication and psychotherapy; thus, improving your physical health. Disability indeed makes us feel depressed, the inverse is also true (depression can lead to disability). That’s why it is important to always reach out to someone and talk about your suffering.

 

  1. Look after your Appearance

 

Because you are advancing in years should not mean that you can’t do it in style. When you look good, you feel even better. Wear sunscreen when you go out into the sun to protect your skin, drink plenty of water. Get a neat haircut or try to change your hair color. Dark hair color makes your features look severe while a lighter skin tone softens them. Looking good will boost your confidence and fuel your purpose.

 

  1. Laughter is the best medicine

 

Laughing lowers the stress hormone cortisol. As per the study done in 2014, 20 minutes spent watching funny videos helps improve the memory in seniors. Some researchers proven happiness lowers the risk of heart illness. So, laugh as much as you can because laughter is the best medicine.

 

6. Explore Things Around You

 

To avoid social isolation and improve your health and well-being: get out of your home. See more things where you are. You might get out to a local park or shopping center. Anything that connects you to the people around you is always worthwhile. Even the smallest social experience can make a big difference. Think about the places you wish to explore and see how you can go there. You should also think about any activities that you might interest you travel to a new place.

 

7.     Be More Creative

 

A creative person is one who thinks about the many great things one can do. Consider yourself more creative in your life too. You could attend an art or music class where you can learn how to play an instrument or artwork. You could attend a writing class. Where you can learn from a professional writer about how to produce your narrative work of art. Being creative allows you to challenge yourself to think more. What can be done when you try to produce appealing works of art. You can do anything you wish to if you put your mind to it.

 

8. Volunteer for work near your place

 

One of the best ways for the people to make the most out of their lives is by looking into great volunteer opportunities. These are events where people can go out. And assist other peoples to organize special events in a community. It could be working at the polling station during an election. Planning a parade or other community celebration. Cleaning up an area in the neighborhood, many volunteer opportunities abound. You can bring your talents and efforts out to help with anything.

 

As you start helping other people, you find it’s easier to enjoy life as you help people in many ways. You will find satisfaction in assisting others to make your community a little happier. You can meet different people during your volunteer works. You can meet other people, who also have the interest to serve their community. The social and emotional benefits you get by volunteering your time. And effort in your community is always ideal.

 

 

 

 

9. Learn to cope with change

As you age, there will be periods of both joy and stress. It’s important to build your resilience and find healthy ways to cope with challenges. This helps you make the most of the good times and keep your viewpoint during tough times. Concentrate on the things that you are thankful for. Acknowledge and express your feelings with your loved ones. Accept the things you can’t change. And focus on the things you can control such as the way you choose to react to problems. Take daily action to deal with life’s challenges by taking a small step at a time. Even a small step boosts your confidence and reminds that you are not powerless.

Depressing feeling, as well as psychological well-being, should not be a burden as you age. Use the points you have read about here. You will find it is not too hard for you to feel better about yourself and where you are going with your life. Dealing with old age always helps as you look to stay confident and comfortable with your life.

Regardless of your age, you can always find the purpose of your life. Finding what’s meaningful to you can take some time and practice, so simple experiment. Wake up every day asking yourself ‘how will I take advantage of this new day? or ‘how can I be of service to someone else today?’ and be open to any opportunities that may arise.

 

Thank you, for taking out your time to read.

Happy Living Foundation provides Couple CounsellingPre-Wedding ConsultationWe also provide counseling for Depression, Stress Management, Career Counselling, Behavior Modification. If you are living in Delhi NCR, India or any other part of the World, you can approach us through any of these mediums. Please visit Happy Living Foundation or call us at +91-9810885481

Author:

Hitesh Mohan

(Licensed Psychologist)

 

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Positive Parenting benefits

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Positive Parentingbenefits

 

Positive parenting is a change of mindset. Allows parents to change from punishing bad behaviour to active and creative modelling. Teaching your children about positive behaviour. Positive parenting is an approach towards your children with love, empathy, and kindness. Rather than creating powers struggles through the enforcement of a set of rules.

There areadvantages to take a positive and insightful approach to your parenting. The main benefit is a happy home and your children feel loved and admired. Here are some ideas to be a positive parent

  1. A More Peaceful Home:-

 Positive parenting leads to peaceful parents, which leads to more peaceful children. If power struggles are a problem in your home, this approach will reduce peace at home. With positive parenting, you work with children to promote better behaviour.Which leads children to fight less for their autonomy and you to struggle less for control. Open interaction and calmsolutions are the keystoa peaceful home.

  1. More Confident Kids:-

Children getting positive parenting are more confident than those parented by other approaches. Positive parenting focuses on the behaviour you wantfrom your children. This will also take care of their successes. This focus allows to building a healthy sense of self-esteem and self-confidence. These are essential for children to grow into a happy adult.

 

  1. More confidence in Your Parenting Skills:-

Positive parenting is about doing what feels right. When you start following your instincts, it makes you feel like a nicer parent. When you parent your child with a positive attitude, you trust your feelings. This confidence comes through to your children. To have confidence in your parenting abilities is what makes your child feel safe and secure. If a parent feels like they don’t know what they are doing, chances are your child will pick up on that.

  1. A Stronger Parent-Child Relationship:-

Punishing a child makes them believe that you might hurt them again. They only understand what we teach them. If it is unkind, all they know is that the person they loved the most has hurt them. This leads to uncertainty in the parent-child relationship.

Trust plays an essential part ina parent-child relationship. When parents tell their children “it’s okay” they want them to have faith inthem. Parents want children to know, they can count on their parents when they need. Without trust in parents, your child has no sense of a safe centre from which to explore. They feel deep-seated insecurity and mistrust of the world. The influence of this carrieswith them well into adulthood.

  1. Fewer Behavioral Issues:-

Children parented with a positive attitude have fewer behavioural issues. This is because of modelling. Children act out what they learn from their parents at home. If aggressive behaviour (even simple verbal threats) are being used at home. Chancesare your children more likely to display this behaviour in other environments.Act the way you wantyour child to act, with humanity, respect and emotional intelligence.

 

  1. Fostering Independence and Self-Control:-

Positive parenting is about inspiring and instilling good behaviour in children. It also encourages children to behave not out of fear of reprimand, but out of a desire to feel good. When parents use negative discipline, the child may behave, but it will be out of fear.

Parents want their children to learn to manage impulses.  This is the “right” thing to do but should not be due to fear of discipline. Parents want them to learn that a child gets a good feeling when they do a good thing. This is how a child can develop self-control and a clear sense of right and wrong.Which will serve them long lasting benefits in their lifetime.

 

  1. Happier Children:- 

Children with positive parents tend to be happier than those from punishing parents. Children from positive parents tend to have much lower incidences of depression. This is as a result of children having higher self-esteem. And more positive relationships with their parents as well as others.

  1. More Empathetic:-

When you are a positive parent, you model responsivenessin your child. Instead of engaging them in what not to do. Parents should let their child know that they understand how a child feels. This is the seed of “Empathy”the best way to teach your child this important skill is by example. You will soon observethat your child is showing empathy, too. It’s possible they show kindness to a friend by giving a hug or sharing their favourite things. You’ll know it when you see it, and it will make it all worth it.

  1. Less Stress:-

Conscious positive parenting allows you to relax and enjoy your children. When you have a peaceful home with no power battles. Parents should spend more time with children enjoying. Instead of constantly trying to keep them out of trouble. Parents can play with children; become creative in the way they teach theirchildren how to be happy. This is the greatest benefit of positive parenting! After all, they are only little for a short time, spend that valuable time with them wisely.

 Positive parenting is considerably difficult. Yet, with enough time and energy it is the best way to be a parent. The outcomes of positive parenting are nothing but beneficial to both the parent and a child.

Being a parent is arguably the hardest job on earth and not every person expects to become a parent, but some do. It’s not a simple task, and the reward it offers is priceless. I am sure no parent would like to exchange that for anything.

Thank you, for taking out your time to read.

 

Happy Living Foundation provides Couple CounsellingPre-Wedding Consultation. We also provide counselling for Depression, Stress Management, Career Counselling, Behavior Modification. If you are living in Delhi NCR, India or any other part of the World, you can approach us through any of these mediums. Please visit Happy Living Foundation or call us at +91-9810885481

Author:
Hitesh Mohan
(Licensed Psychologist)

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Benefits of meeting a Counsellor

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Benefits to meet with a counsellor

Counselling provides a space to explore what you need to be able to expand, let go of the past, find direction. And explore your process without having to worry about anyone else. We all have blind spots or find that we get stuck in a feeling or perspective that limits us. A counsellor provides a non-judgmental presence this allows you to build trust in yourself. It is not always possible for others to provide the objectivity necessary to focus on your needs.

Counselling, thus, provides a very unique relationship. That supports you in your process towards expanding the possibilities of who you are. And how you choose to live your life. At times when challenges in our life may lead to anxiety, depression, or other health problems. Through counselling, you can explore your alternatives. Build on your strengths and develop new insight and skills. If you are considering going for a counselling session. The key benefits that come out talking to a trained counsellor listed

 

  1. Different perspective

Speaking aloud about your thoughts and emotions lets you see them from a new perspective. Instead of in the interior of your mind. Saying them to another person also makes you consider what their view is? Meaning you can gain new ways of thinking about your problems.  Simply by letting them out. Similarly, keeping a diary or journal is a great help to many people. Seeing your problems written down on paper allows you to examine them from a distance. In some cases, worries or anxieties aren’t founded on any real cause for concern. What they thought was a very serious issue. In fact, nothing at all to worry about – this can be a huge relief.

 

  1. Emotional experience

Letting things out that you’ve been keeping inside can be an emotional experience. Absolving you of pent up emotions. As many people find they are relieved of thoughts or feelings that they’ve been bottling up. Such a release often feels like a weight off the mind. And allows people to begin to let go of feelings they’ve been holding on to.

 

  1. Confront feelings

Today we’re busier than we’ve ever been in the past. As our attention is pulled in every way possible from the moment we wake up until the moment we fall asleep. This means we can rarely afford the time to sit and process feelings of guilt, remorse, grief or sadness. Counselling means you dedicate some time to facing or confronting your issues.

 

  1. Support for your problems

Often people feel unable to share their feelings and issues with the people in their life. And quite often with those closest to them. Having someone who is a stranger, who doesn’t know you and won’t judge you. This gives you the freedom to talk about things you wouldn’t normally admit to your friends and family. This is hugely helpful in making people feel less alone and isolated in their suffering. Especially if you’ve had something on your mind that you’re too embarrassed to discuss with people who know you.

 

  1. Simple to Cope everyday Life

Sharing your emotions through counselling means you can get on with the rest of your life. Making it easier to cope with. You have some weight off your mind. And you know that should anything come up, you have someone you can talk to about anything you’re worried about. People find that you can rely on someone to listen to your problems. This frees them from worrying about their problems all the time. Means they can focus on living their lives again. Being able to focus on everyday life means people make positive changes in their life. Which, in turn, lifts their mood. Some even get back on the path to realizing their dreams.

 

  1. Emotions shared

Having one person that you confide in, who listens to you. Relieves you of always shouldering the burden of your emotions. It’s quite common for emotions that are bottled up to have lasting effects on your mood and behaviour. And long-seated issues can be the root cause of all kinds of worries. If you’re struggling to process your emotions and it affect your daily life, seeing a counsellor can help.

 

People started opening up about their struggles related to mental health issues. The stigma seems to be fading, if slowly. If you feel therapy would benefit you, go for it. And if you can’t, talk with friends – they will be grateful you opened up and it may give them the green light to do the same. Chances are it will help kick off some important dialogues.

 

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